Saudi Riyals and the Family Ledger

Money, in Sajjad Husain's household, was never treated as a subject too delicate for plain conversation. One episode the family preserves in particular detail concerns a matter of foreign currency — Saudi riyals, likely connected to arrangements surrounding travel, pilgrimage, or family obligations that crossed international borders — and the careful calculation that such transactions demanded from a family of modest means navigating the particular complications of exchange rates, transfer costs, and the ever-present risk of a transaction going wrong at a distance no one could easily correct.

Sajjad Husain was, by every account, meticulous about accounts of this kind, insisting that money entrusted for a specific purpose be used for exactly that purpose and no other, and the episode involving the riyals is remembered as a particularly vivid instance of that insistence in practice — a careful accounting, a plain question about where every rupee or riyal had actually gone, and a household lesson, delivered with characteristic directness, about the seriousness with which financial obligations ought to be treated even, or especially, among family members who might otherwise assume that blood relation excused a certain looseness with the books.

This should not be mistaken for miserliness, a charge the family's own account explicitly and repeatedly rejects. Sajjad Husain could spend, and did spend, readily and without hesitation on education, on illness, on guests, on the genuine needs of relatives and strangers alike — the entire record of his life, from Ottoman prisoners fed at his own expense to a family's mortgaged field recovered through his intervention, testifies to a generosity that ran far beyond the ordinary. What he objected to, consistently and without exception across sixty years, was waste, and spending undertaken mainly for the sake of appearance rather than genuine need. Distinguishing generosity from carelessness was, in his mind, not a minor bookkeeping preference. It was a moral distinction as important, in its own domestic register, as the distinction he had drawn years earlier when he refused to inflate his own Partition property claim beyond what he had genuinely lost. A rupee given away out of real need was a form of service. A rupee wasted, even a family member's rupee, was a small betrayal of everyone else who might have been helped by it instead.